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Cultivating Our Children

Rainy days make me want to ONE, bake and TWO, read.  I haven't really done either on this rainy day, but I guess you could count sifting through the email in my Gmail Inbox and checking out a few blog entries as reading.  Some pleasure reading through a novel was more what I had in mind though.


See Cookie Recipe Below

Anyway, one of my emails was one of Sally Clarkson's recent blog posts and it captured my attention.  [laughs] Just check out the title:  If you really love your children, turn off your computer, cell phone and tv and read!  I've read the articles in Parents magazine about the consequences of children watching TV at a young age.  I've even read Sally's thoughts in older posts about not having the TV babysit your kids and being intentional about reading more with them.  I've read it, I know it, and I agree.  But the reality is Leala has been tech savvy since probably about the time she turned 1.  I don't know whether to be embarrassed or proud of her ability to turn on a TV, turn on a DVD player and insert a DVD.  It wasn't until one day that she couldn't turn on the TV when she pressed the Power button that I discovered somewhat of a solution.  My husband must have recently installed our surround sound system and forgot to plug the power cord to the TV back into the outlet.  So now if we don't want her to watch anymore TV, we unplug it.  I would much rather have the TV and media players hidden behind the doors of an armoire, but that's not currently in our budget.  So we can only really limit her TV watching time by unplugging.  The other thing is I'm on the couch about 8 times a day nursing Adella and I don't have the freedom or ability to sit down with Leala during those times and encourage her to use her free time in more creative, interactive ways.  I would love to sit down with her and inspire her to play with her toys or to open a book, but when I'm stuck on the couch with her baby sister, having the TV on is the best way I've found to keep her in one place.  Left on her own, she usually ends up wandering somewhere in the house where I can't keep her from getting into trouble.  And "blanket time," as shared in the Duggar's book 20 and Counting!, only really works at least once a day (but is still an awesome training tool!).




Alright, so enough rambling about what I can't do (partially with the intent of getting good advice from other mothers or caretakers of children out there).  How about what I was inspired to do?  This blog entry from Sally coupled with the chapter I just read and studied, Gardener of Souls, from her book, The Mission of Motherhood, inspired me to ONE, start making it a daily routine to read a book with Leala, like the 2 times a day that she runs to her special spot on the couch to drink her warm milk, and TWO, to purchase Baby Colors by the photographer Rachael Hale.  In her book, Sally shared how she, "was always on the lookout for beautifully written and illustrated children's books that reflected moral excellence, family values, and a reverence for nature or God and that delighted the mind and heart," and when I was browsing online, trying to decide how to spend the last $8 of some birthday money I was given, the beautiful board book from Rachael Hale came to mind.  I remember seeing it in the book section of a store once and hadn't seen it again when I looked for it.  This book I think will be a great way to share my love for photography with my daughters and will maybe spark in them their own sense of creativity when they're older.  And hopefully it'll be the first one in a collection of picture books I'll be able to get from Rachael Hale for Leala and Adella in the future because browsing through her other books online, I've decided she's one of my favorite photographers.


I love this whole concept of "cultivating" things in our children from Sally's writings.  Looking up the definition to "cultivation" added more to the idea:

"cultivation, n 2. development, especially through education, training, etc.  3. culture or sophistication, especially social refinement."

And introducing our children to good books is just one of the ways we can cultivate them!  In closing, I really like this analogy from Sally:

"As a garden cannot flourish without a gardener, neither can a child reach his or her potential without someone committed to careful cultivation.  Just as a garden without a gardener will eventually go to seed and be covered over with weeds and debris, a child whose growth is unsupervised or left to chance will likely grow wild and undisciplined or stunted and unfruitful." 
{Sally Clarkson, The Mission of Motherhood, 142}


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Maple Syrup Cookies

1 teaspoon baking soda
1 tablespoon milk
1 egg
1/2 cup plus 2 tablespoons shortening
1 cup maple syrup
3 cups flour
3 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 (8 oz.) package semisweet chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  In small cup, dissolve baking soda in milk and set aside.  Cream egg, shortening, and syrup.  Add flour, baking powder, salt, vanilla, and baking soda mixture; blend well.  Stir in chocolate chips.  Drop by teaspoons onto greased cookie sheet and bake for 12 to 15 minutes. 

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What Freedom Means to Me


Last night I remembered that Leala had a couple of patriotic hand-me-down dresses hanging in the closet that needed to be worn this year because by next 4th of July she will be too big for them.  I don't ever remember dressing up in red, white, and blue for 4th of July, but I remembered one family who does.  One of my favorite bloggers, Amber, regularly dresses her family in matching colors for her blog posts.  Last year, for the 4th of July, was no exception.  I looked up her 4th of July post from last year because I remembered her family doing something special to celebrate the holiday and I thought it would be a cool tradition to start with our family.  One of them was reading "freedom" verses from the Bible like:
"Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and do not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage" (Galatians 5:1).
I love doing word searches through the Bible and thought looking up "freedom" verses to read and meditate on on the 4th of July was a great idea!  One of the ones that have come to my mind is:
"For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don't use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love." (Galatians 5:13, NLT).
As a Christian, that's what freedom means to me.  The country I live in may give me the unalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, but as a Christian, those are governed by God's law summed up by Jesus when He said:
"'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind'... and... 'Love your neighbor as yourself'" (Matthew 22:36-40).
I liked the point our pastor made at the end of our church service this morning.  He encouraged us as we celebrated our country's independence tomorrow, to remember that we're dependent on God and interdependent on one another in the body of Christ.  Well said.  The independence I celebrate the most is a life free from the bondage of sin.  One of my favorite verses that I believe defines true life is what Jesus said in John 10:10:
"The thief does not come except to steal, kill, and destroy.  I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly."
At the beginning of our church service we sang "The Wonderful Cross" and I think it's a great song to remember on the 4th of July.  Maybe every 4th of July our family's tradition will be to sing worship songs together and read verses that remind us of true life, liberty, and happiness.  The whole song is great, but the line that always sticks out to me is:
"Love so amazing, so divine
Demands my soul, my life, my all."
We're reminded repeatedly in this country, and especially on the 4th of July, that our freedom wasn't free.  Lives were sacrificed to gain our freedom and lives are continually being sacrificed to preserve our freedom.  As Christians we need to remember that our freedom, our salvation, wasn't free either.  It was bought at a price, so in gratitude, I need to use my being in a way that brings glory to God (see 1 Corinthians 6:20).  I like what Nancy Leigh DeMoss said at a True Woman conference about counting the cost.

Q.  What are your 4th of July traditions?


I know some families have barbecues or make special food in celebration of the holiday.  I would like to start doing that.  I'm making these Brownie 'N Fruit Kabobs.  Don't they look yummy?

Flip Flop Decorating Party [Part 1]


There is so much that can be blogged about concerning the successful Flip Flop Decorating Party we had on Saturday!  I think because I was hosting the event, I didn't get to take as many pictures as I would have liked, so I'm depending on a couple other ladies that snapped photos, to share theirs with meOnce I have them (and I'm planning on getting them soon), then I will post "Flip Flop Decorating Party [Part 2]."  I'll say... it'll be posted by the weekend.  In the meantime, I'll share my iTunes "Beach Mix" playlist I played at the party, Elaine Kotter's "Famous Tangy Meatballs" recipe, and the "How to Make Interchangeable Flip Flops" tutorial I used on my flip flops, with you.


The Beach Mix

It was fun and time consuming to come up with songs that mentioned the ocean, the sea, waves, the sun and other lyrics that reminded me of the beach.  I was surprised at how many songs came to mind.  I aimed for mainly worship songs or other songs with a Christian message. 

Ocean Floor (Audio Adrenaline)
Summertime (Audio Adrenaline)
Life (Beckah Shae)
Walk on the Water (Britt Nicole)
Listen to the Sound (Building 429)
Who Am I (Casting Crowns)
Shine (Collective Soul)
Stars (David Crowder Band)
Dive (DC Talk)
Past the Breakers (The Distillery)
Be the Centre (Jami Smith)
Beautiful Lord (Leland)
Stronger (Mandisa)
Pocketful of Sunshine (Natasha Bedingfield)
Something Beautiful (Needtobreathe)
In Wonder (Newsboys)
Sailing On a Ship (Phil Wickham)
Jesus Lord of Heaven (Phil Wickham)
Heaven & Earth (Phil Wickham)
My Praise (Phillips, Craig & Dean)
Anchored Deep (Scott Cunningham)
Oceans From the Rain (Seventh Day Slumber)
Wash Me Clean (Shawn McDonald)
Your Love Never Fails (Sixteen Cities)
Ocean (Ten Shekel Shirt)
Your Love, Oh Lord (Third Day)
Hold On [Telemitry Remix] (Toby Mac)

David Crowder's song "How He Loves" came to mind ("If His grace is an ocean we're all sinking") and I would have added it, but I could only buy so many iTunes.

Q.  Are there any other songs you can think of that could be added to the mix?
       (Please post your comment below)


Famous Tangy Meatballs Recipe

- 1 bag First Street plain 1 oz size meatballs (found at Smart & Final)
- 2 12 oz bottles of Heinz chili sauce
- 1 cup Welch's concord grape jelly

1.  Preheat oven at 400 degrees.
2.  Pour the whole bag of meatballs into a 9x13 baking dish and bake for 20-30 minutes.
3.  Mix the chili sauce and grape jelly and pour over the meatballs.  Bake for another 10-15 minutes.
4.  Pour into a crockpot when done and set to warm.

I doubled this recipe for our party of about 28.  I think each bag had 40 meatballs in it.  We ended up with enough leftover meatballs to enjoy sub sandwiches for a couple days!  I also made potato salad, Dalana made a spinach artichoke dip, Sierra made cookie dough brownies that went really well with Kayla's homemade vanilla ice cream!  There was lots of yummy food!


How to Make Interchangeable Flip Flops


I used this tutorial to decorate my flip flops.  I chose a color I thought would match everything I have and would work as a good base for the different colored accessories I could make to go with specific outfits of mine.  I got my flowers off a pair of bobby pin hair accessories that I got at Claire's a couple years ago.


The green backing was already coming off one of the bobby pins, so it wasn't hard to pull off.  Once I removed the bobby pins, I glued the green backing to the flowers.  I then glued the flowers to the pins I got at Walmart in a package for only $2.  I got a package of alligator clips too.  It took a few squirts of glue to get the flowers securely glued to the pins since their bottoms had a curve.  Each time you apply the glue, follow the instructions in the tutorial, allowing the glue to set for 2 minutes.


For the interchangeable ribbon part, I took a short cut and put two spots of glue so I didn't have to wait another 2 minutes to allow the other side to set.  You just have to be careful when you do the first wrap around the flip flop strap.  FYI, E-6000 is very tacky and can come out quickly.  I had to use a paper towel to stop the glue from coming out of the tube.  I think the more you use the glue, the less it just keeps coming out like that.  Anyone have any tips for that?


The Sneak Preview

If you missed the photos from my Flip Flop Decorating Party [Sneak Preview] post, then go here